Is it love or not?
The main thing in relationships is originality and ability to surprise your partner. Try to excite his/her imagination by all possible means in order not to seem boring and monotonous. A person should be a mystery. Thanks to this very riddle a person who has it will always be loved.
The point is that each of us is extremely eager to get to know another person through his/her inner world. As we meet people we all assess the appearance. This is the reality of life. As we come and talk to people we can judge about the inner self. From this moment begin relationships and love develops. Certainly if it is not the case of love at first sight. This kind of love does exist and is an indispensable factor of subconscious that can not be controlled. Love at first sight is an infatuation. One step is enough to make.
Any relationships require care, tenderness, responsibility, understanding, sincerity and honesty, self-esteem, etc. It is difficult to resist the pressure of these qualities, the more so if they awake in you gradually. Owing to relations we become two dear persons, who know everything about each other. That's very good when your partner knows about you very much. On the other hand, over time, it becomes boring. Relations hold on the infatuation which preceded love and has again returned. The only difference is that once you took a step to love, and this step was your ace in the sleeve. Now, when you and your deck of cards is disclosed you won't be able to surprise anybody, because all know what you can do actually. That is why you need mystery the mystery, which was mentioned above, in order not to allow sentiments, affecting you and your beloved one, to vanish somewhere deep inside your "self". Irresistible desire to unravel mystery in you is this very love glue, with which you will be able to love and be loved. After all, only extraordinary persons have managed to achieve favour from their chosen ones.
