Love by eyes
The truth is that the guys love by their eyes - this is true, but not all the time when he dates a girl. The fact that girls love by their ears is also true. Here is just a small amendment: the appearance of guys is in their concern to the same extent as the appearance of girls to guys. The beauty of the girl attracts guys. It is a principal and, probably, unquestionable fact. This refers to girls as well.
Claims that a guy must be a little more beautiful than a monkey are not true. The fact is that the guys like most girls are attracted by the appearance at first sight. Suppose a guy saw a girl he evaluates her 5 seconds. This assessment includes both her appearance and manners and the way she talks. The girls are concerned about it either.
If a girl is silent, the guy simply appreciates her appearance. When he starts a conversation with her, he evaluates her communicative skills.
But a guy does not care about her skills when he comes to a girl to relax and have sex.
I want to note one more feature typical to girls - selectivity. Girls are irritated by dirty shoes or sneakers. Nice haircut, pleasant smell from mouth - that's what they want. And of course clean socks. Believe, if you are accustomed to their odour, your chosen one isn't.
What to dress? Many girls like long coats, someone likes rumpled T-shirt and jeans. Experiment on clothes, the choice is huge. Of course, don't forget about communicative skills. The power of words fascinates girls. Nobody likes bores. Girls also do not like when you approach them and begin to hesitate. It happens because you have prepared yourself for this conversation beforehand and have forgotten everything you wanted to say. Be spontaneous, it is much better. After all, if you prepare a speech, and a girl doesn't it is not honest. Your mistake is that you have already settled everything yourself and try to explain your decision to her. Arrogant are disliked by everybody even by you. Propose dating her without previous preparations. You will see there is nothing difficult in it, it is rather amusing.
For a girl it is enough to look well to be attractive for a guy. But if he wants to meet you again, this is not enough. Do not strain yourself, guys like girls as they are: sensitive and charming. And one more: do not laugh at everything that the guy says, lest what he tells is really funny. Tell something interesting or funny yourself. Guys also love by ears. But do not overdo, they too do not like chatter-boxes. And don't make very serious face - it is superfluous.
Be able to listen to. The most important is not to let guy understand that he is not interesting to you from the first minute of your acquaintance or even a second. Such is the custom the guy comes to the girl first. For the guy it is an incredible test. After being rejected he won't come to another girl, or maybe will do it in the distant future.
Imagine yourself in his place somewhere in the disco club. You approach a guy, but he turns you down. It's bad, so do not refuse to dance when you're invited, dance doesn't lead to anything. View it differently: if you are invited to dance, it means you are attractive. This may be the very guy you dream about but did not notice his presence before this remarkable dance, which has joined you in this moment. In general, be yourself, this is important.
Some guys like glamorous girls. To tell you the truth, they like them because they have no hang-ups and can do what normal girls just cannot afford because of the proper upbringing. Guys know that a cool evening with such a girl is guaranteed. But in this case they subconsciously decide for themselves, that in order to be with this girl they must have a thick wallet. It stops some guys and discourages other ones.
The guy is looking for a girl to fill the unengaged space in him. He is looking for a girl who has something he hasn't. This can be anything: features of character, manners, etc.
