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Whipped by the need to be liked by another person people rush to find for their original style; they pay their entire attention to clothing, to folds on the trousers; they always search for any component to emphasize their individuality. You will be able to find your new place in the family and professional environment only after you accept your new appearance yourself. Guarantee of understanding from others is the deliberate attitude to yourself: it is impossible to love others, without loving yourself. Begin with self-actualisation. Create your hero and follow this ideal. Set a goal for tomorrow and exert all efforts for its reaching. After carrying out the first goal, set somewhat more complex goals to yourself. Time will pass and you will substantially change. You will be more self-confident, you will know what is prepared to you for tomorrow. This will give you pride for yourself. You will begin to rate yourself higher as a personality.
The problem of many people is the fact that they cannot say "no" when it is necessary. Here the story tells not about sex, but about the fact that it is sometimes necessary to refuse. If you think that your friends behave incorrectly, say it. Especially when they force you to do things you do not want to. After answering negatively they will think over their actions. In turn you will establish yourself as a strong personality, not as characterless amoeba.
Have a sense of humour. Smile on face gives charm to a person. He/she becomes merrier and more pleasant-looking. Try to smile in the street to passers-by. They will smile to you in response. It will be pleasant for you. Finally, be yourself. Take things easy. Thus it will be easier for you to find those features, which prevent you from fulfilling yourself as a personality and work on them. The best friend is regarded a man who is able to tell you in person things that you fear to confess. Yes, the way of self-actualisation is hard. But the earlier you will start, the faster you will become the person you want to be.
