The causes of conflicts in the family
Maybe at first it is better to think and assess what is the reason of conflicts in the family? Scientists have found out that conflicts may arise because of inconsistencies with the "biological clock" of people. There are people "Skylarks" and "night owls", and maybe you and your husband or wife just belong to the different categories, while one of you wakes up one morning, and plans the day, the other vice versa, sleeps and does not think what to do today. But this is only an assumption, which cannot be the reason of all problems arising in family life. Maybe there is another reason: you have incompatible attitudes, for example, in upbringing of children, differences in financial matters.
I would like to explain how conflicts arise in the family from scratch and unfortunately it happens quite often. Imagine a standard situation. You come from work, the way home was unpleasant, someone pushed you in the public transport and in general you had a hard day in your office. You see your husband, who is sitting on the sofa and watching TV calmly, your kid asking for help with his homework. You are ready to demonstrate your anger and irritation accumulated in you. And when family conflict reaches its climax, you understand that there is no sense to continue further conversation. As a result, you keep silence and each minds his/her own business.
The day passes then evenings pass in silence, nobody wants to speak. You think: "maybe it is better to talk?" "No, why should begin first?"
